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Families In Harmony CULTURAL HUB

Black Caribbean and dual heritage children are disproportionally represented in the children's ‘care’ system. Black children are 5% of the overall population but represent 7% of looked after children in England and the figures are rising.


The Nuffield Foundation

"It takes a village to raise a child"

What does this mean for kinship carers?

How kinship care helped to rebuild the Uninted Kingdom

The impact of the Windrush generation

OUR WORK IN ACTION

Families In Harmony, a poem by Beverley Campbell MBE

Families in Harmony, a dream created out of more than one nightmare

Our lived experience inspired us to do more than just say “we care”

We recognised that so many carers of our culture and skin tone

Felt unable to access advice and financial support, leaving them isolated and alone

These carers were committed to looking after children they loved so dear

But their desperate need for support from the authorities was outweighed by their fear

Worried that speaking up could result in their wishes and feelings being met with disregard

And their grandchildren being put into care, seeing their entire future marred.

Why is it that a large section of society doesn’t even know the phase “kinship care”?

When in fact, in our culture, these families are living everywhere

The Windrush generation created the concept as parents left their children with other family

Coming here to work hard and, as they’d been led to believe, integrate into British society.

However, many found, despite their education, diligence and willingness to work hard

They were treated with anger, disrespect and total disregard

The knock-on effect meant many were unable to reunite their family for many years

And despite sending home money and barrels, in their children, it caused resentment and tears

So, when that generation became the elders and now see how hard life is for their kin

They’ve pledged to avoid separation, and support the babies and parents from within

Families are a priority in our shared culture and that’s the way it should be

But this has detrimental effects when you feel misunderstood due to your diversity

One size doesn’t fit all, when it comes to mandatory assessments carers must pass

As if assessors misunderstand your culture, then dye is already cast

Feeling judged on how you do the things you learned on your mother’s knee

Makes many feel, no matter how desperate their need, “this is certainly not for me.”

So, they go it alone, without advice, help or financial support just to be able to care

Possibly putting themselves and those they love on the road to despair

We were highly educated and focused women and wanted to help others in need

By holding hands, fighting injustices and creating groups which we would lead

These support groups gave the space for those who felt marginalised and maligned

To discover it was not right, they were certainly not alone, there were others of their kind

Our voices were first whispers but together we’ve found they can resonate

Creating working partnerships with others we’ve been able to push open the gate

We are ensuring our culture, history and daily struggles were being heard and seen

For this, we were even invited to socialise with no less than the late Queen

Using our knowledge and passionate, together we’ve become a formidable force

Winning a Fellowship award to visit Jamaica to study kinship care, set us on a new course

Giving to others is something kinship carers know all about

But too often, they work so hard but about their achievements they’d never shout

We want our families to get the support they need, that’s why we do what we do

And we’ll always try to help you recognise the importance of being you

And if we’ve been helpful, there’s just one thing we’d like to ask you to do

Please positively promote our growing organisation that works consistently for you

So, when it comes to funding bids to help families resembling your own

We and those we represent, and support will not be left fighting alone.

We all need help sometimes, even if it is just a listening ear

Let’s be there for each other, as the more of us together, the less we have to fear.

Black and Asian children in care proceedings case take longer to complete, more cases leave court without a decision being reached.


The Nuffield Foundation


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